Dating recently separated


02-Jan-2020 22:58

Of course, he’s more worried about getting hurt than he is about hurting the woman, but we’ll leave that aside.

The point is that he is, as he pointed out, in a position of scarcity.

About a year ago I dated a guy who was dear-god near perfection.

About a month or so into dating, he brought up something he said was important.

I’m wondering if there are other types of women worth taking a risk on.

Maybe women who may have listed a less than accurate preference about having children to not scare people away?

It would be like me saying that I want to drive a car, but I’ll only drive a hot pink Lamborghini that I see being driven down my street. I don’t blame you, Steve, for not wanting to have kids.

Otherwise, buddy, my advice to you is the same as my advice to anyone who restricts their own choices: open up or quit complaining how hard you’ve made it on yourself.He was such a great man in so many ways & his reasons for not wanting kids were so sensible that I was willing to imagine a kid-free future. Besides, if you keep getting older you’ll basically be dating women past that age anyway.