Dating recently separated
Of course, he’s more worried about getting hurt than he is about hurting the woman, but we’ll leave that aside.
The point is that he is, as he pointed out, in a position of scarcity.
About a year ago I dated a guy who was dear-god near perfection.
About a month or so into dating, he brought up something he said was important.
I’m wondering if there are other types of women worth taking a risk on.
Maybe women who may have listed a less than accurate preference about having children to not scare people away?
It would be like me saying that I want to drive a car, but I’ll only drive a hot pink Lamborghini that I see being driven down my street. I don’t blame you, Steve, for not wanting to have kids.
Otherwise, buddy, my advice to you is the same as my advice to anyone who restricts their own choices: open up or quit complaining how hard you’ve made it on yourself.He was such a great man in so many ways & his reasons for not wanting kids were so sensible that I was willing to imagine a kid-free future. Besides, if you keep getting older you’ll basically be dating women past that age anyway.