Dating on the job is it really worth it

15-Oct-2019 16:05

No matter how fun and sweet someone is, it's difficult to build a life with someone who doesn't value the same things you do. And even if things feel off or they do something that ticks you off, do you still feel good when you're with them most times?

If the answer is yes, then that probably means you feel strongly enough that the little things don't throw you off track.

You don't need to have an identical sense of humor, nor do you both need to be comedians.

But if you aren't smiling and laughing together after a few weeks of dating and getting to know one another, take note.

This isn't important to everyone, but finding the humor in the weird, bizarre, even upsetting things that happen to us, and the things we observe in daily life that may seem banal or commonplace to others, is what makes us human.

And if you can do this together, that's indicative of a special connection.

What you're comfortable with and looking for in a partner will fluctuate based on your lifestyle, support system, ambitions, and the chemistry between the two of you.

Sometimes, you just happen to be seeing a couple of people at once, or are actively trying to put yourself out there and meet as many people as possible and that's fine, too.But it's part of the deal, and once you accept that, you'll start to have so much more fun.