Beautiful women hard time dating
In a previous article, I put forward the notion that individuals were not "afraid" to date—rather they simply did not have sufficient incentive to do so (see here).We are all motivated to seek out rewards and avoid punishments (Skinner, 1974).
Men would love to bring this type of woman home to their mothers and show off to their bosses. She needed to learn how to allow a man to see behind the curtain, beyond the facade of “I don’t need you,” and beneath the “I can do it myself” veneer.In contrast, if they follow more "assertive" biological imperatives, they are labeled "jerks" and "players"—who may get sexual gratification, but not love or respect from what they would consider a "good woman".Overall, they report that there is often little incentive for men to date and even less for them to consider long-term commitments.When rewards outweigh punishment, people perform behaviors.
When punishments weight more heavily, people avoid those same behaviors.In contrast, if men shun social pressures to be "nice" and follow what is biologically attractive, they have a higher likelihood of getting "sex partners".